A Woman's Prerogative

A Peak at our summer thus far...

2009-07-28T22:14:00.007-04:00

Chelsea's graduation party, started off the summer with a bang! There were so many dynamics to this party it was surreal. As many of you already know we had a very special visitor! Carrie from CandidCarrie came to visit and help us for the party. She brought along two of her adorable children. You would think it would of been awkward, we had never met in person, only online! She was just as funny, caring and down right amazing in person as she is in the computer! In fact my Mother referred to her as Internet Carrie! She helped me cook, scrub and wash while she was here...I never laughed so hard either. I'll show you some of the pictures she took (she downloaded them onto my computer thank you Carrie!) And give you a glimpse of the time she was here!

If you get a chance to meet someone, that you've been friends with online DO IT! It's wonderful, I'm hoping to see Carrie again soon along with her whole family!

Of course her cake table!
A little dancin'
A little singin'
And of course kid bowlin'

Thank you again Carrie for making Chelsea's graduation party a huge success! We all love you!!

A lot has happened since I've been here...

2009-06-16T10:21:00.004-04:00

My girl is done with school...let's just say for the time being.

Everyone always tells young parents...

"Boy, when they start school watch out, because they'll be gone before you know it!"

Well, it's true. Ali started college 3 years ago and she's done with college this December! Chelsea starts college in the fall, she'll be done before you know it. My kids are growing up way too fast, Hannah's a senior this year and Gavin starts High School! Chloe's in the 8th grade and Rickie starts 3rd grade! The funny thing is I'm not getting any older AT ALL! At least I don't feel any older. Back to Chelsea, she did a phenomenal job in High School her last cumulative grade point was a 4.16.

We'll be celebrating her graduation soon and I will post pictures...surprise guests will be coming!

Love you Chelsea and Congratulations sweetie!!

My girl at 8 years old!

Adjusting to a new normal...

2009-04-08T18:30:00.007-04:00

Happy times with my Dad!!

What is ALS

Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), often referred to as "Lou Gehrig's Disease," is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and the spinal cord. Motor neurons reach from the brain to the spinal cord and from the spinal cord to the muscles throughout the body. The progressive degeneration of the motor neurons in ALS eventually leads to their death. When the motor neurons die, the ability of the brain to initiate and control muscle movement is lost. With voluntary muscle action progressively affected, patients in the later stages of the disease may become totally paralyzed.

A-myo-trophic comes from the Greek language. "A" means no or negative. "Myo" refers to muscle, and "Trophic" means nourishment–"No muscle nourishment." When a muscle has no nourishment, it "atrophies" or wastes away. "Lateral" identifies the areas in a person's spinal cord where portions of the nerve cells that signal and control the muscles are located. As this area degenerates it leads to scarring or hardening ("sclerosis") in the region.

As motor neurons degenerate, they can no longer send impulses to the muscle fibers that normally result in muscle movement. Early symptoms of ALS often include increasing muscle weakness, especially involving the arms and legs, speech, swallowing or breathing. When muscles no longer receive the messages from the motor neurons that they require to function, the muscles begin to atrophy (become smaller). Limbs begin to look "thinner" as muscle tissue atrophies.

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My father, my rock, the man I've always leaned on was diagnosed with ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease.

We've (my mother and me) been trying really hard the last couple of days to wrap our brains around this diagnosis. Fortunately my father does not understand the gravity of his diagnosis. I think that in and of itself is a blessing. He's telling everyone that there's a 95% chance he'll go into complete remission. We know that this is not true, but we will not tell him.

We all need hope, and my father has found that hope.

Who knows the mind is a very powerful thing and maybe he will go into remission. I will hope and pray for that.

Give your loved ones a hug and kiss, we never know whats ahead...all we really have is today and I appreciate every minute.

This is a therapeutic post for me

2009-04-08T09:33:00.005-04:00

I really wish that I could write. Tell all of you what I'm feeling right now. How do you put into words emptiness, pain and hopelessness. That's what I was feeling yesterday for a bit. I say a bit, because I cannot let myself stay in that frame of mind. I have to stay positive and move forward...I have a lot of people counting on me for that.

I'm sorry to say that it's almost become part of my life for the last 8 years. One more tragedy to deal with...suck it up Carey, and deal with it.

You must be wondering...where's her faith? I have faith. Faith, that what ever happens, I am not alone, that I can deal with what's put in front of me. That there is something better for us in the future. All of us.

That being said, I am only human, and I am at the end of my rope. That's basically all I wanted to say today.

More later. Thanks guys for listening, and as strange as it might seem I feel better just putting it on paper...so to speak.

Hey, hello and I'm back!!

2009-03-21T14:36:00.003-04:00

I've not posted in so long, I almost forgot how!

My daughter was listening to this song on her iPod, and I really like it. A. Because it's the whole mood/tone of my emotions lately and B. Because I just like Johnny Cash.

I'm going to make an attempt to get back to posting, and keeping up with my blogging buddies. I miss all of you, and I hope you're doing well!

Everyone here is doing well, we've had a quiet winter, health wise, so that's good. (knock on wood) I'm really not superstitious just don't want to jinx anything.

(Johnny Cash and Joni Mitchell The Long Black Veil)

Missing but still here

2009-02-19T12:13:00.002-05:00

I've been missing for a while, and I'm still out of commission...be back next week, hopefully I'll be feeling better!

Bella & Tara

2009-02-11T13:05:00.001-05:00

My friend Meg shared this with me today, I loved it so much, I'm sharing it with all of you!

I Love Snowmen!

2009-02-06T07:37:00.002-05:00

Went running the other day, and I just happened to have my camera with me. This friendly snowman was just waiting to get his picture taken, just in time for Friday Foto Finish Fiesta! Stop by Candid Carries and check out all of the other fotos today!

Vote For Sara Nelms

2009-01-30T08:32:00.005-05:00

Our friend Ronda at Ronda's Rants needs all of us. Actually, a young and upcoming star needs us. You see, she has a dream and maybe we can help her achieve this dream by simply voting for her! She would love to tour with a group Little Big Town.

Wait there's more I want you to link to Ronda's Rants and post about Sara's dream...just a minute there's more-when you're at Ronda's blog enter a contest to win an iPod nano! Yes, isn't that great! But more than anything let's help Sara win, so that she can sing her heart out! Don't worry if I haven't explained it thoroughly you'll get all the info here!

Check out Candid Carrie today for Friday Foto Finish Fiesta!!!!

One of the reasons I watch Super Bowl!

2009-01-29T12:08:00.002-05:00

I'm not sure if this will air, but this is hilarious!

I get to watch the Superbowl this Sunday with my husband and son and 10 of our son's friends! He's 14. He's growing up. We're getting the food tonight. Ladies this really bonds you with your sons especially, so take advantage of the time together.

He might not hang with me, but I'll have to say, the preparations are just as much fun!

Bud Light Commercial

Sick Daughter, Clean Room, Rewards to boot...

2009-01-23T07:36:00.004-05:00

Yesterday, my third daughter was home from school ill. Actually, she's been home all week and yesterday was the first day that she felt a bit better so naturally we cleaned out her room.

When the oldest lived at home (three years ago) they shared a room. I'm backing up here so that you can follow my train of thought. (not many people can you know)

Ali, the oldest had just graduated, and her Grandmother gave her this beautiful locket. She wore it once. She wore it once, and lost it. She was beside herself.

This brings us to yesterday, cleaning sick daughters room out. You know where I'm headed with this don't you? We found it in all places a jewelry box! Go figure. To be fair it was in Grama Pat's jewelry box (Ric's mom) We have no idea how it got there...this brings us to the picture of Ali with Ric on her graduation day with the locket!

This is sickie Hannah in her room. Isn't she a cutie! Oh yeah, when you clean out a room you also get more bonuses! I found two borders gift cards as well, and I'm using them! Who knows whose they are...I figure I earned them!!

Go to Candid Carrie and check out a lot of great FOTOS because, today IS Friday Foto Finish Fiesta!!

Happiness Is A Warm Puppy...

2009-01-15T21:22:00.005-05:00

Head on over to Candid Carrie's and check out all the FANTASTIC FOTOS

My Thought Process (unedited)

2009-01-15T11:56:00.000-05:00

I'm cold.

I want to eat.

I want to eat comfort food.

Now.

Comfort food.

Country Comfort.

OH MY GOSH, I love Rod Stewart.

Does anyone else think like this? Tell me I'm not alone.

Oh great, now I am hoping to hear voices.

To Maintain A Healthy Level Of Insanity

2009-01-14T06:19:00.002-05:00

1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With
Sunglasses on and point a Hair Dryer
At Passing Cars. See If They Slow Down.

2. Page Yourself Over The Intercom. Don't Disguise Your Voice!

3. Every Time Someone Asks You To Do Something, ask If They Want Fries with that.

4. Put Decaf In The Coffee Maker For 3 Weeks. Once Everyone has Gotten Over Their Caffeine Addictions, Switch to Espresso.

5. In the Memo Field Of All Your Checks, Write
'For Marijuana'

6. Skip down the hall Rather Than Walk, and see how many looks you get.

7. Order a Diet Water whenever you go out to eat, with a serious face.

8. Specify That Your Drive-through Order Is 'To Go'..

9. Sing Along At The Opera.

10. Five Days In Advance, Tell Your Friends You Can't Attend Their Party Because You have a headache.

11. When The Money Comes Out of The ATM, Scream 'I Won! I Won!'

12. When Leaving the Zoo, Start Running toward the Parking lot, Yelling 'Run For Your Lives! They're Loose!'

13. Tell Your Children Over Dinner, 'Due To The Economy, We Are Going To Have To Let One Of You Go..'

And The Final Way To Keep A Healthy Level Of Insanity

14. PICK UP A BOX OF CONDOMS AT THE PHARMACY, GO TO THE COUNTER AND ASK WHERE THE FITTING ROOM IS.

I know most of you have seen this, I just thought it was hilarious!!

Monday, Monday...

2009-01-12T10:39:00.004-05:00

Can I talk?

I'm just going to ignore that anyone is reading this and vent. Thanks. Maybe throw a few questions out to ya? I know I said I was going to ignore you, but I changed my mind.

I feel stuck. My feet are firmly glued to the ground and I cannot move. I have so many things I want to get done and accomplish lately, yet i don't do them. Is this a menopause thing? Or maybe...just a me thing? I think the beginning of the year goals are already getting to me. I've realized that I didn't accomplish what I wanted to last year and another year went by! ARGH....I hate that. The fact that I'm such a goal orientated person doesn't help.

I go to bed at night stressing and thinking of what I didn't do instead of what I did do. The problem is I never give myself a break. Let me list what I HAVE to do everyday and then maybe I can prioritize from there.

1. laundry

2. exercise

3. meals

4. cleaning (vacuuming, dusting, bathrooms)

5. overseeing treatments

6. blah, blah blah

You get the picture. You're probably asking what is her problem? I know everyone does the same type of things everyday, plus work... the difference is other people find time to have fun, visit people or go shopping (even if their not buying, their getting out)

The issue is I cannot do something fun until all on my list is complete! It ends up being 9 or 10 at night and theirs no time left!

The fun things I'd like to do and can't find time are-

finish a book

go to the library

paint my bathroom

start a book club (had one years ago, loved it)

That's just a few things, give me suggestions. Please.

What NOT To Give Your Wife For Christmas

2009-01-09T10:00:00.002-05:00

Well, well, well.

Look at what my husband bought for me.

How To Raise A Gentleman A Civilized Guide To Helping Your Son Through His Uncivilized Childhood.

* And yes, it is a great book.

* And yes, anyone raising a son should have this on their "must read" list.

* But no, you don't buy this book and give it to your wife and tell her, "Here Hon, I thought this might help you."

I am just grateful that he bought the book with a hard cover. That way when I smack my husband over the head with it he will be reminded not to buy me any more self-help books.

If you really want to help yourself, head on over to Candid Carrie ... her friends can help you laugh at yourself which is a much better form of therapy.

When The Lights Were Out . . .

2008-12-30T09:46:00.002-05:00

Posted by Carrie Sue, not Carey Sue

For most of our children, a day without electricity means an adventure while staying wrapped up with blankets. You can bet the dust is blown off the antiquated board games. No one in the house remembers the rules that go with Scrabble. And it is hard to resist a good round of flashlight tag even though you are supposed to be "saving" the batteries.

Then you've got the "we're are without electricity" dining dilemma. You're family is down to the last loaf of Wonder Bread (pictured, baby not included), a fresh container of peanut butter, two jars of applesauce, and a handful of stale marshmallows.

I talked to our seven year old friend Rickie via his mom's cellphone shortly after the power went out and he said it was going to be awesome.

His mom, Carey Sue confided that she was worried about Rickie's cystic fibrosis. Manual chest percussions weren't nearly as effective as the treatments he received while wearing his vest.

By the time the power was returned to the 2,300 customers in Grosse Pointe, Rickie had missed three treatments that required electricity. During my last phone call with Rickie before the energy was restored, his voice was barely recognizable. Thick with mucous and deep from chest congestion, seven year old Rickie, bragged about everything he played with that wasn't electric.

"Mostly I'm playing with Star Wars guys and Matchbox cars. Then when I get bored I line up the Star Wars guys and use the Matchbox cars and play bowling 'til they are all knocked over. Oh, I've got a Hulk guy too but he doesn't stand very good. I need guys that stand good so I can bowl 'em over."

Long story short, my people, is once the power was restored and roads were cleared Rickie was in the doctor's office and the decision was made not to admit him to the hospital but to send him home with medication that included a minimum of four weeks on two antibiotics, and treatments are now four times a day instead of two.

Remember this plea? Well, we are at that point in time. Are you interested in making a huge difference? Have you got an envelope and a stamp? Can you spare five minutes to jot a quick message? Seven year old Rickie would love to hear from you!
Many of you have already responded and Rickie's mom has a small stash left of your mail to share with him during the long treatments. If you thought about responding during the first request and it slipped your mind ... well here is one more opportunity.

The unfortunate thing about cystic fibrosis is even when Rickie's come through this bout of congestion, you will have yet another chance to send him mail the NEXT time he gets ill.

And why do I feel so passionate about helping? I'll tell you why right now. On January 6 of 1996 I lost my chronically ill daughter, Madeleine. She was the same age as Rickie, seven. She had an undiagnosed degenerative neuromuscular disorder, but she died from complications with pneumonia.

Life's come full circle for me and through foster care, David and I are looking forward to adopting our two youngest children (a boy age seven and a girl age five) that we've been calling our own for the past two years.

I look at my healthy happy seven year old and know that he has two perfect lungs. I see his pink cheeks on his flushed face. I remember back thirteen years to a point where I watched another child of mine struggle for oxygen and never quite get enough no matter how much work we did on those lungs, no matter how hard we tried to get all the gunk removed ... well it was never quite enough to make a difference.

I won't continue, but this isn't about me. This is about making a difference for Rickie and right now, while his lungs are out of commission he still has an active mind and a busy body. Make a difference, send him a card and tell him someone in another section of our great land is thinking about him.

Contact me, Candid Carrie at carriestuckmann at gmail dot com and I will get his address to you right away. Be sure to put Rickie in the subject line. Thanks.

Don't Worry Be Happy, It Can Be Done...

2008-12-21T08:00:00.002-05:00

I had this long and drawn out post today, to introduce this video. I deleted it.

Basically, it was talking about how bad the economy is and how concerned all of us are, and rightly so! I've asked my husband not to talk about it all the time with me, so I am taking my own advice and doing that with you! That being said, please watch this it really touched me, and made me realize (again) that we should be thankful for even the small things in our lives.

Please watch.

You asked for it, and here she is!!

2008-12-18T22:07:00.002-05:00

Sometimes when I get up in the morning, I feel very peculiar. I feel like I've just got to bite a cat! I feel like if I don't bite a cat before sundown, I'll go crazy! But then I just take a deep breath and forget about it. That's what is known as real maturity.
Peanuts
Snoopy

And that is exactly what Lucy does, she wakes up and goes straight for the cats. Scout, our mother cat loves Lucy. Yes, she really does...Lucy runs straight for her and Scout lays down and Lucy is all over her. (very amusing to watch)

I completely forgot what having a puppy was like until this passed week. I have a toddler, yes a toddler you have to watch her like a hawk, because if you didn't pick up something off the floor, it's in her mouth. Just a glimpse of Lucy. More pictures next week!

Enjoy CANDID CARRIE today shes having FRIDAY FOTO FINISH FIESTA!!!

Happiness Is A Warm Puppy

2008-12-14T18:09:00.000-05:00

Lucy is here! I'll show you better pictures later because right now we want to watch her sleep.

Hmmm ... I love the smell of puppy breath, how about you?

Do Not Worry About A Thing

2008-12-11T11:18:00.008-05:00

Be careful with your babies.

Our children can feel the affect the economic situation has on their lives. Cut backs in the family, hearing it on the news constantly and from their parents worrying and discussing, sometimes when little ears shouldn't be listening.

So my motto this past week was "Don't Worry About A thing"

Every morning this week my children would come downstairs I would was playing this song and singing it to them and try to start their day off on a positive note!

My message to you out there is "everything's going to be alright!" Let your kids go to school on a happy note. Shelter them from receiving too much information. Protect them from the cold hard facts. You can tell them there will be changes, but they don't need to see the fear in your eyes and make it their own fear.

Bob Marley--Three Little Birds or Don't Worry About A Thing

Here is my Friday Foto ... this is Rickie being a kid! Let your kids be kids during this hard economic times! We are worried all of us, just don't discuss it non-stop with your children.

Spend time with your family. It is free. Blow the dust off your board games. Bonding as a family can be free (and priceless).

You're not going to believe this!!!

2008-12-08T20:10:00.004-05:00

If you haven't had the chance to hear this amazing little girl heres your chance. .

Warning: Get some Kleenex, you're going to need it!!

Six year old Connie Talbot

I really miss my dad

2008-12-05T13:00:00.000-05:00

I really miss my dad. He's in Alabama for the winter with my mom. This is my favorite picture of him. In this picture he was seventeen. He married my mom a year later.

Did you see that? I had to take a picture of a picture so that I could show you! My kids have not had time to show me how to scan. Maybe for Christmas they could teach me Scanning 101. I'd better put that on my Christmas list or know one will pay attention to it!

Anyway, when I was a little girl I thought that I would marry my dad. I would bring my friends in to "look" at my dad. When my brothers and I were young, he worked two or three jobs to make ends meet. As soon as he sat down he fell asleep. It wasn't a real nap, it was a "cat" nap.

So I would parade my girlfriends past my handsome daddy. "Isn't he cute?" I would ask and they would all shake their heads "yes" because no one wanted to wake him.

The entire time I was growing up I was always crazy about my dad. And it wasn't because I was the favorite. He didn't have favorites. I actually thought all girls were wild about their daddies until I started talking to friends in middle school and they thought their own dads were "dumb" or "old."

Jump ahead to high school and at that time I remember my friends telling me that my your dad is was good looking and nice. He really never said much or really interacted with them because he was the strong but silent type.

Even when I look at the picture above I vividly remember how loved and safe I felt with him. This picture was Thanksgiving at my aunt's house. I burst in the room with something to say and once again my daddy had given me his undivided attention.

Enjoy your vacation, dad. I miss you. Relax and come home safely.

Love, Carey

Tagged--now I'm it!!!

2008-11-29T19:55:00.006-05:00

My dear friend over at Rbk's Realm tagged me. I want to mention first, if you haven't, you really should check her out--she's absolutely fascinating. You will learn riveting customs and traditions from her first home in India.
This is what you need to do:

1) Link to the person who tagged you.
2) Post the rules on your blog (copy and paste 1-6).
3) Write 6 random things about yourself (see below).
4) Tag 6 people at the end of your post and link to them.
5) Let each person know they have been tagged and leave a comment on their blog.
6) Let the tagger know when your entry is up.

Here goes:

1) I have six kids ages; 20, 18, 16, 14, 12 and 7. Do you see a pattern?

2) The first five children, I had with my former husband. He said to me, you'll never get remarried or have a long term relationship! With five kids they'll run like hell!
I guess I showed him didn't I!

3) I spent a good portion of my first 8 years of life at an airport, looking up into the air. My parents parachuted every weekend. My mom was so good she could jump out of an airplane, holding an egg in her hand, and land on target...without breaking the egg! To be fair my dad did too!

4) My husband married me with 5 kids (see above)he had none! He moved all of us to Detroit from a small town in West Michigan, coworkers said we were the Beverly Hillbillies! Soon after we had number 6! He is quite the trooper!

5) I think I could have OCD, when I'm anywhere and bored I start counting in my head, pictures on walls, wall angles, things on the floor...and the thing is, it has to end on a even number. If it doesn't, I will start over until it does. I've had therapy so don't worry I'm fine!

6) I love to vacuum, yes, it's true, I will vacuum every single day...even if it doesn't need it.

7) I have the best laundry room ever! Two washers and two dryers, built in folding table and a mounted television on the wall, for my viewing pleasure. I would rather do laundry, than sit in the family room and watch TV.

8) I have another daughter leaving for college next fall and I'm already sad. I know Red (spokes n spin)you think I'm crazy, but I can't help it!

I went over, sorry! I was thinking it was 10! Oh yeah, my memory sucks! It really worries me. Although, if I lose my memory, I just hope I'm in a good place in my head...and I don't know, that I lost it!

I'm changing the rules just a bit...if you want to tell us some interesting things about you, go right ahead and please link to me and if you don't It doesn't matter.

C'est la vie!

My *ahem* 49th birthday!

LUUUUUCY!!

2008-11-24T14:11:00.002-05:00

I love Lucy.

Not that Lucy!

This Lucy!

Our bundle of joy is expected to arrive at our house in about ten days! I can't wait to smell her sweet puppy breath. And clean up her adorable puppy piddle.

Do me a favor, dear readers. If I ever start complaining about that puppy piddle be sure to refer me back to this post, alright?

I might not be back for a little while because I have to puppy proof the house!

Untraditional Traditions

2008-11-18T13:35:00.007-05:00

Maybe it is my age, I am not sure but I seem to have memory lapses. I've decided that when a memory pops in my head I had better write about it so I don't forget.

We are a spiritual family, believe in God, but we don't reguarly attend religious services. Having said that, our Easter it's pretty much like everyone else's Easter.

We would color Easter eggs, set out carrots for the Easter bunny the night before, and hunt for our Easter baskets on Easter morning. See, we were just like you.

When my Grandparents were alive we would almost always go to their house for Easter dinner. I told you we were just like you.

Here's the thing about untraditional traditions, you don't know they are untraditional until you start talking. That was how I found out I wasn't just like you.

I am taking you back to Easter morning.

* The Easter baskets are found.

* Eggs are safely refrigerated.

* Chocolate bunnies have been eaten.

Besides cheap plastic grass, what is left in the Easter baskets?

Yes, you got it jelly beans!

And what do you do with jelly beans on Easter morning?

Come on think!

That's right, you play jelly bean poker!

And if you're really good at jelly bean poker, you win all of the jelly beans!

I am not sure how old I was when I found out that this was a tradition that was unique to my family, but I remember being surprised.

Do you have an untraditional tradition that you would like to share? Go tell Candid Carrie because she is having a contest.

"I can think better when I think alone."- E.B. White

2008-11-13T20:32:00.007-05:00

It was late summer, and I had spotted this days prior to taking this picture. Rickie insisted it was Charlotte's Web... who was I to argue, of course it's Charlotte's Web !!
Here's one of my favorite quotes from Charlotte's Web! Charlotte talking to Wilbur:

"Why did you do all this for me?" he asked. "I don't deserve it. I've never done anything for you."
"You have been my friend," replied Charlotte. "That in itself is a tremendous thing. I wove my webs for you because I liked you. After all, what's a life, anyway? We're born, we live a little while, we die... By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle. Heavens knows anyone's life can stand a little of that."

Reading to your kids pays off!!

Head on over to Candid Carrie for some phantastic Fotos of excellence!

Hurry people not much time left!!

2008-11-11T16:34:00.000-05:00

Alright, I've always been a bit of a procrastinator...this is the last day to enter Candid Carrie's Cheesy-giveaway so head on over to her place and post about it and your entered! There, that was easy!

I am going to win!!! I hope.

Friday Foto Finish Fiesta...Pregnancy fotos

2008-11-06T20:19:00.009-05:00

You really ought to go over to Candid Carries and check out all of the fabulous fotos and especially Carries *WOW* Your going to love it!

Before you take a look at my fabulous Phat belly...remember this is my sixth child OK people, this is very daring for me. Well, kind of, if you knew me in real life it's not too surprising. I am a bit different in person...I was telling Candid Carrie that I wish I was witty, sarcastic and funny on my blog but I'm not....nada, zilch, zero. Get the point I'm not one of the FUNNY ones, and that's OK, not all of us can do that-be funny that is. I do though like to ramble on and on and on.

So, take a look I was out in the garden, I had gotten really warm so I took my shirt off and had my jogging bra on. Yes I still ran while I was pregnant...I'm sure that was quite the site!

One month later here I am.

The finished project about a month later! Of course I look tired!

And finally Daddy time! Big smooches!!

Biggest party ever....

2008-11-04T15:30:00.002-05:00

and it's not for me...Yes, I voted I did my civil duty.

I really don't like to talk about politics, because I'm the type of person that hates conflict. If I did tell you my point of view, somebody would get mad and I just don't want to do that. I know that people say, hey-it's your blog tell it like it is. Truly I would if I didn't think anyone was reading...I know there are, so no comments from me politically.

On a different note--It's my birthday and it's almost 70 degrees here...my parents are here along with all of my kids so it's a great day!

Have a wonderful day everyone. I am.

Happy All Hallow's Eve.......

2008-10-31T07:51:00.006-04:00

Ali the "nerd"

Rickie at pre-school
I was listening to the radio this morning and I got this great idea for a post this morning!! They were having listeners call in and tell them the worse thing they got for Halloween!!!

Here's a few I heard this morning--a frozen waffle, can you imagine looking down and seeing a FROZEN WAFFLE, gee thanks...a bag of cough drops...

Rock hard popcorn balls.

Toothbrush and toothpaste from a dentist! (comes in handy though!)

So come on people, leave me a comment, and tell me the worse thing, or on the flip side, the best thing you received in your Halloween bag!!

Go to Candid Carrie and see all the fotos for Friday Foto Finish Fiesta!!
This is a great foto...can't take credit for it found it on Corbis!

*couldn't find Halloween pictures this morning-I would have to scan them, and I don't know how!

We really need to get some candy...

2008-10-29T19:38:00.005-04:00

Rickie-How many days until Halloween Mommy?

Me--two

Rickie-You're kidding...wow...we don't have any candy yet!!

Me-I know I'll have to get some.

Rickie-Why don't you make some!

Me-I can't make candy.

Rickie-Are you kidding mommy...you can make anything....you can make loovve...etc, etc

I completely forgot what else he listed at this point.

Me--Yeah, I do love you alright...

Big hugs!

I love the fact that our kids think--we can do anything. I'll show this to him when he gets older....

Kids say the darnedest things!

It looks like pick-up sticks!!!

2008-10-29T19:17:00.001-04:00

When Ric leaves for work we have coffee in the morning, and talk about what we're doing for the day. He decided I should clean out some cupboards and our small pantry off of our kitchen...I wasn't that excited about cleaning out the pantry, but being the nice wife that I am I did it.

Here's a picture of the floor, I was taking everything out and moving it to the basement pantry and this is what happened! Yes, that's dry spaghetti all over the floor! I picked up the box to move and it was upside down (thanks kids!)

Kind of looks like pick-up sticks don't ya think?

We'll I cleaned it all up and it looks beautiful!

Oh yeah, got the cupboard cleaned out too!

Just a tad frustrated...

2008-10-28T12:23:00.004-04:00

He did his very best today, he gave it his all. They want him on IV meds for another week! It's the best for him, I know...me, not so much! (did that sound like a song?)

He might be home for the week...to finish them out and get some much needed rest. If we do this...the chances go way down for the need to be in the hospital. And we all know we don't want that!

He will get better!!

Sign him up...

2008-10-27T22:57:00.004-04:00

Rickie's biggest dream is to be in the army...he takes it very seriously as you can tell....his IV bag comes in very handy because it looks like a grenade!

What's so funny with kids is that when they put a costume on they ARE that character...he was wearing the army costume tonight and he was strutting his stuff, standing tall and acting very brave--of course he couldn't hug me in uniform!! So, I'm playing along with him and I merely suggest he wear it tomorrow when he goes in to do his PFT'S. You know, make him stronger...or give him more confidence, and he looks up at me with disbelief and says...why would I do that and that is dumb mom...you can't walk into the hospital with a costume on.

I thought for sure he would play along, I was getting into it!! A little bit later he said to me...do you really think it would make me stronger?

I preceded to tell him it absolutely would, and he could make his mind up in the morning. Of course, we'd have to put the camo paint on his face...and maybe they wouldn't even recognize him!

I will play along, and do what ever makes him happy tomorrow...because if he passes his test tomorrow....no.more.Iv's!!!

*Army costume with built in muscles- priceless*

Bloggy Book Club at Ronda's Rants!!!

2008-10-26T14:04:00.002-04:00

Please head on over to Ronda's Rants and participate in her Bloggy Book Club.

She is discussing the book--The Shack by William P. Young

I will be reading all of the posts about this book though so please, if you've read the book speak about it!

Next time I'll finish the book in time! :)

Friday Foto Finish Fiesta

2008-10-24T06:23:00.003-04:00

Friday Foto Finish fiesta is happenin' right now so go on over to Candid Carrie and check out all of the funny,fabulous fotos!

Friends Forever

November 6, 1958---October 23, 2005

2008-10-22T22:45:00.007-04:00

Dear Dave,

I'm sitting here at my computer trying to find words to tell you how much I miss you. No words can accurately describe how this feels writing to you, knowing you'll never answer me back...you were my big brother, my protector, my confidant, my hero.

I remember when you went into the navy and how mom, dad, Rick and I cried as the bus drove off with you in it...and how young you looked. How you looked so brave, I missed you then. You came back, older, stronger and more confident. Not that you weren't already. Heck, you were the high school heart throb, all the girls loved you! I was in your shadow in high school...one time some guy came up to me out of the blue and said--Hey, why can't you be like your brother Dave? and I just replied...I don't know? I wasn't jealous-I was so proud of you, you had the cool factor going on.

When you came home on leave from the Navy, you were so great, I was so happy that you were home even for a little while...I just want to thank you for spending time with me...taking your kid sister to lunch, buying me things (you didn't have to do that you know) Listening to Fleetwood Mac on your 8 track! Drinking beer with Pickard!

I wanted to tell you that I bragged about you all the time..."My brothers in the Navy on a nuclear submarine, he's a nuclear electrician!" I think people got tired of hearing about how great you were!

A lot has happened since you've been gone...but, I don't want to go that route right now. I just want to say; thanks for being there for me...we had a great life together...you know, you don't hear about that many siblings loving each other as much as you, Rick and I did! Maybe partly because we were so close in age, Mom practically had triplets we were so close.

Just know that I miss you so much my heartaches, I'll never ever, ever stop missing you...I know that if you could you'd tell me to stop already! So, I will.

I love you Dave. Miss you.

Here's to you, one of the songs we used to listen to, in your green chevy malibu.

Fleetwood Mac-Never Going Back Again

Get The Bean

2008-10-22T14:48:00.003-04:00

Hey...all you coffee and tea lovers, there's a fabulous new blog that just started a few days ago.

Here is the best part- to launch they're website they are doing a great GIVEAWAY! For the month of October they're going to giveaway 1 bag of coffee EVERY WEEK!

So, head on over to Get the bean and check out this great new site!

More fall pictures...

2008-10-21T19:31:00.003-04:00

I really like these...the color has really popped!

OK so I get lost....

2008-10-20T06:54:00.006-04:00

When my oldest daughter was a baby, I often times took her for walks in the woods.

We lived on a dead end road, the last house on the left and about a thousand feet from the road, so basically out in the middle of no where.

Ali was a one year old at the time, and she was up early...so, I decided to take her for a walk, mind you it was a foggy morning...the sun was not shining. If you know me you know that I get lost very easily.

My husband at the time, always kept the trails mowed, so how could I possibly get lost?!! I was not worried I've never, ever been lost in the woods...I grew up in the country!

We set off for our walk holding hands and singing and talking...it was precious.

I guess I wasn't really paying too much attention, because we were off the trail! That's OK, I can find my way back, at this point her little legs are getting very tired, so she's on my shoulders now.

Still walking, and looking for something that looks familiar. Nope, nothing.nada. yet I swear I can find my way back.

This is before cell phones. Can't call and get help...so, I do the second option- start crying just a wee bit don't want to upset Ali. Remember, there is no sun I can't walk in any direction and know where I'm going. Cannot get my bearings I'd walk 20 minutes one way, and I don't see anything at all that I've seen before. OK, maybe someone is out in the woods and can hear me.

"HELP, HELP, I'M LOST AND I HAVE A BABY WITH ME!!!!!!!!!" HHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLLP! HELLO??????!!!!!!!

NOTHING. Silence. Ok I'm crying now...like a baby! I.am.lost.

I have been in the woods for two hours I think or longer.

Ali at this point is getting really heavy. Alright Carey--suck.it.up. Figure it out you're a mom!

I'm standing in the woods and looking around--I've tried going this way and that way let's try just walking one direction and maybe, I'll hit the road at some point and walk home...yes, it has to work.

I think I hear some voices...yay, people, living, breathing people that can help me.

But, wait. They could be ax murderers! Well, I'll just have to take my chances.

Me--Hello?

Them--Hey, how's it goin? (shot guns in arms)

Do not let them know that you're scared shitless.

Them--You lost?

Me--Ahhhh, yeah. Can you tell me how to get to 72nd avenue?

Them--What? You're way the hell from there....hahahahahahahah

Me--I need to get home, where is it?

Them--Follow us and we'll take you home.

OMG, take me home, I don't know these guys at all. I thought if I just followed them to the road, that would be OK.

We make it to their house. I have never seen a scene like this before it was a cross between the Beverly Hillbillies house before they moved to California, and the Adams Family. Cars up on blocks...not that there's anything wrong with that mind you...junk everywhere, I'm talkin garbage galore--mud...there's no grass just mud. Chickens pecking the ground. Oh yeah, a deer hanging from a tree...I know it was deer season...had no business in the woods.

I see a van in the drive way. A van with no windows. I don't know but that just freaks me out, don't they want to see out the sides of the van?!

I quickly ask if I can use there phone...they don't have one! SHIT. What am I going to do. The only thing I can do is walk home on the road.

I quickly thank them, and tell them I'm fine and I'll walk home.

"Hey, maam, you can't walk all the way home!"

"I'm fine," I say, and start walking down their muddy driveway, with my tired, cold, one year old.

I stopped and stood there for a moment and turned around. OK, I'll take a ride home.

What the heck was I thinking...ride with complete strangers in a van with no windows. OMG! They could...well, you know what they could do.

I'm in their van and all the while they're driving I'm praying to myself....please God just let me get home and I'll never get into a strangers van or car again...I promise!

They took us home and I thanked them.

I had them drop me off at the end of my road...didn't want them to know which house was mine...of course they're were only two to choose from.

Needless to say, I didn't walk in the woods for a long time after that...I just couldn't do it.

That was the first time I got into a van with strangers, you'd think I would of learned my lesson...that's a whole other story!

A few scenes from my neighborhood...

2008-10-16T20:08:00.006-04:00

Went for a walk Thursday here are a few shots I thought were pretty good!

I had to put my hand though a hole in a fence to get this shot...what I really wanted to do...was go in and walk in the woods! Next time I'll find an opening.

I think the color this year is phenomenal.

This is in a cemetery not too far from my house.

Check out more photos over at candid carrie for Friday foto finish fiesta!

I'm feeling sorry for myself today...just today

2008-10-14T09:10:00.004-04:00

(warning venting and feeling sorry for myself post) I'm just going to start typing so bear with me...

I feel so overwhelmed lately with doing Rickie's meds and treatments and taking care of everything...

Most of the time it doesn't bother me, or I don't let it bother me...he's CF doesn't exist...yeah, he does treatments every single day--but, that's normal. When he gets sick it's a slap in the face that it exists and even if he isn't coughing, mucus is building up in his lungs trying to grow bacteria. blah,blah blah....

Both of my parents are not doing well and that's a constant worry as well...I'm the only kid left so it's up to me to help them. (when I can) that's another thing I can't help them as much as I want to.

The anniversary of my brothers death is coming up October 23rd so I'm thinking of him a lot.

I guess it's just a bunch of stuff piled up...I can take it most days. I'm rambling I know

I also realize, it could be worse, and others have it harder than I. If you're out there I am so sorry, and know that--I do think of others and their circumstances all the time.

I pretty much do this every couple of months (feel sorry for myself) and most of the time I don't publish..I decided today that I would and be done with it.

Here's to tomorrow and moving forward.

Thanks for listening!

Eleven O'clock...

2008-10-12T22:46:00.002-04:00

I was getting Rickie's meds ready again tonight for his eleven o'clock dose...just thought I'd show you what he is on.

The big syringe is Ceftazidime and I have to push that in...ideally taking 5 minutes.
The baby bottle looking antibiotic is call Gentamicin and that takes around 30 minutes to infuse.

When he was hospitalized this time the Physical Therapist taught Rickie to huff..a different way to cough to loosen and get out his mucus. I was so proud of him because he "got it".

When Rickie was hospitalized in the past...he totally freaked out during blood draws. Normally they can draw blood from his port. They can't when he's on gentamicin because it would give them a wrong reading for his trough and peaks. I probably spelled that wrong for you medical people out there! Anyway, this time when they had to draw blood he just put his arm out and watched and didn't make a sound! I was so amazed! I'm not kidding it would take at least three adults to hold him down and one to draw blood...all the while he's screaming. So for him to totally do that was amazing!

They also added more medication to his everyday schedule...Rickie takes it all in stride...he says to me--"Mommy, I'm just a normal boy." And that's how he wants people to see him.

Good night! :)

Home is where the heart is...

2008-10-10T21:31:00.004-04:00

Rickie's home and feeling better...he has his IV meds to do at home and the usual treatments...hopefully we got this over with early in the flu season...we can only hope! (if it only worked that way!)

Again thank you for all your well wishes!

This is Chelsea my sweetie at the surgeons office this morning waiting to get her wisdom teeth removed...she was a bit nervous! I have two sickies to take care of this evening...Get well Chels! It's a bit more quiet around here! Not a bad thing huh?

Good night everyone! :)

The worst is over....

2008-10-08T11:29:00.004-04:00

I think Rickie went through the worst of his virus at home...he was admitted yesterday and they did the usual, blood work, PFT's, chest x-ray, and accessing his port. They have him on two different antibiotics. They have to check his blood levels to make sure they don't give him too much of one--because it can cause hearing loss. Don't want that!

He's on droplet alert because he has a virus....no leaving the room and anyone coming in has to gown up and wear a mask.

The good news is--they might let me take him home and continue his IV meds at home. YAY!

As some of you know, sleeping in the hospital is not conducive to sleeping. The downside would be they wouldn't let me take him home until he's down with the round of meds! *ugh*

Just thought I'd let you know--he's doing a lot better already.

Thanks for all of your support.
Life is good!

Waiting for a room...

2008-10-07T07:23:00.003-04:00

Thank you all for your comments and support. It really means a lot!

I'm getting anxious now, because he's getting worse....

p.s. I'm really not trying to be a drama queen I'm just scared.

Rickies going back in for a lock up...

2008-10-06T14:23:00.003-04:00

Rickie is being admitted tomorrow to Mott's Childrens Hospital.

His Doctor says for a couple of days to start IV meds and to knock out what's growing in his lungs.

He'll be fine. He's a trooper.

I will be back in a few days. If I'm longer, my daughters will update.

Very cool giveaway....

2008-10-06T07:43:00.003-04:00

Notice the cool button above...The Life & Crimes of a Mom is doing a very cool giveaway! Go and check her out. She does awesome blog designs and creates beautiful custom jewelry!

Post her giveaway, and she'll give YOU extra entries... mention where you heard this and the person you mention, will get extra entries as well!! hint, hint

So, what are you waiting for get over there! (please)

September 24, 1988

2008-10-05T23:13:00.005-04:00

**I know you're surprised!

I have an announcement to make..I completely dissed you Ali...yes, I did. You turned 20 on September 24th and I didn't even make mention of it.

Ali I am so sorry. It's just that...I was so... Hey, I do not have an excuse--

H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y A L I...

You are no longer in your teens you're now in your twenties...you work full time and go to college full time...not only do you have a 4 point you're in honors college!!!!!!!

I think you're amazing, beautiful, funny, talented and the bestest big sister ever! You're an incredible writer and humanitarian, thank you for making me so proud.

I couldn't love you more even if I tried!

I love you sweetie--Happy Birthday!

Love, Mom

She is sixteen going on seventeen...and other happenings!

2008-10-04T09:31:00.002-04:00

Happy Birthday Darling I love you very, very, very, very, very, very MUCH! ( lyrics taken from Bright Eyes)
Not only is it your birthday, it's also your Homecoming Dance!

You are my middle child, the one that gets lost in the shuffle. Yes.it's.true. When we had you we also had two others who needed a lot of attention. Ali not so much. Chelsea was not yet two so in her eyes you TOOK her mommy! You took it all in stride, even as a newborn... you sat back... and observed. Thank you for being so patient.

When you were not quite two, we had another baby. You took that all in stride as well. You didn't make a lot of noise...played by yourself and always were smiling.

Well, today it's your turn! It is all about you!! Thank you for being such a wonderful daughter! HAPPY SWEET SIXTEEN!!!!!!!

*next year you're the oldest home.

Fox2 News...

2008-09-29T23:27:00.003-04:00

Well, we just watched our interview and of course we were all laughing our heads off!!

Seriously--it was a great segment...we would be terrible celebrities, we were all nervous.

Click on here to see the interview.

For our local people....

2008-09-29T18:59:00.004-04:00

Right here in this newly painted dining room, we were interviewed by Lila Lazarus of Fox2 news Detroit.

Remember guys, the camera adds 10 pounds to you...

Lila L. is a teeny tiny woman--she doesn't look big by any means...in person she is a shrimp. ( no offense Lila) Chloe our 12 year old was there as well and she's the same height! so glad she wasn't sitting next to me!!

Any way it was a blast and hopefully they air it tonight at 10pm on Fox2 Detroit.

I think you can watch it if you go to myfoxdetroit.com and click on health and go from there. Put in Cystic Fibrosis or Rickie.

Simply Beautiful...

2008-09-29T14:31:00.004-04:00

No words needed...

Just awe-inspiring!

OK, so I was missing for a while...

2008-09-26T13:31:00.003-04:00

Just figured how to download from my camera...I kept getting the message "not ready."
So, I tricked it and put the card directly into the computer and IT WORKED!!

Here are a couple of pictures of Rickie...the second one...he is off to school on his bike for the first time!

You'll be seeing a lot more day to day pictures!!!

She made it through!!!

2008-09-20T21:24:00.002-04:00

My mom had surgery last Wednesday, she made it through the surgery!

You see we were a bit worried, as she had a heart attack in June of this year. We are so thankful for all your prayers and well wishes!

*This is a picture of my parents and myself this past August on vacation in Canada.

OK, so it won't change history YET!

2008-09-15T17:09:00.003-04:00

Researchers have been working on a vaccine for breast cancer tumors for 10 years...they now have a vaccine that targets tumors and stops them from growing.

Apparently they're hopeful to come up with a breast cancer vaccine in time. (10 to 20 yrs)

This is wonderful news...my mother is having a mastectomy on Wednesday. Hopefully, she will have available to her the vaccine if more tumors come back via clinical trails!

This is her second round of breast cancer please say a prayer for her on Wednesday...:)

*when this was told to us this morning from a reporter--it was our understanding there WAS a vaccine to prevent breast cancer. Still good news!

This is big people...really big!!

2008-09-15T10:53:00.002-04:00

Watch the news today...something that will change history will be announced!!!

Swimming for Cystic Fibrosis..Friday foto Finish Fiesta

2008-09-05T06:00:00.002-04:00

As most of you know five brave men committed to swim from Harsens Island to The Grosse Pointe yacht Club. September 4, 2008.

Fox 2 news planned on covering the event...although, there was something more important to cover...the plea agreement of the now ex-mayor of Detroit. So because of this man, fox 2 had to miss the event.

More important, we were there for them cheering them as they came in. Can you imagine swimming for 8 hours? I can't.

When you love your kids... you can do things you'd never think you could do, the human spirit is so incredible.

Congratulations: Ric Geyer, Derek Weaver, Greg McDuffee, Mike Hutchinson, Mike Stevens And a special thanks to Shaun McElroy for volunteering to ride the entire day in the boat, watching out for these guys. He is an EMT.

Thanks again!

Head on over to candidcarrie and check out all of the cool pictures...their has to be hundreds of them by now.

*click pictures to enlarge

UPDATE!!!

2008-09-04T07:28:00.005-04:00

UPDATE: Ric along with 4 other guys finished the swim at 4:30 this afternoon! 13+ miles.

We are sooooo proud. Pictures to come later tonight hopefully!

Thanks for all your well wishes:)

Update: Halfway across the lake at noon.
Expect them around 4pm

They're motoring out in the boat..

Starting around 8a.m.

Possibly finishing around 2p.m.

Temperature this morning 64 degrees

Water temperature a bit cold!

It's not looking too promising...

2008-09-03T18:09:00.004-04:00

Here's the forecast we're looking at for tomorrows swim. It's raining right now as I'm typing this. Let's just hope the weather cooperates! Fox2 news Detroit will be there in the morning when the guys leave for Harsens Island...all the while hovering over the lake with there helicopter. That's the update.

Article in the Detroit Free Press

2008-09-01T09:27:00.002-04:00

I completely forgot to mention to you all, There is an article about CF and my husbands attempt to swim across Lake St. Clair...

Please read it and tell me what you think!

Scroll down to the life section and you'll see it! Thanks!

I dare you to mess with us!

2008-08-29T06:00:00.000-04:00

from left starting at the top: Jake,Max,Gavin, Sal
Center Middle: Rickie
Front: Gracie,neighbors friend,Emma

I love this picture...childhood, dog days of summer,imagination, adventures.

This foto reminds me of a Disney Movie. They were battling boys against the girls, I think Chloe was with them as well...she took the foto. (wouldn't want to leave her out) So, I will take this foto and enlarge it and hang it with all of the other thousands of memories hanging on our walls.

Go to candidcarrie and check out all of the other fabulous fotos!

Two wonderful Women...

2008-08-27T21:18:00.004-04:00

I was thinking really hard today...I know it's hard to believe..hahaha seriously, about what to talk about, or share with you and I'm coming up short.

I was supposed to show you pictures of our vacation and the problem with that is, I don't have any really good pictures. :(

I'm not humorous like candidcarrie. The way she describes the most mundane things for example: counting money (in the privacy of her bedroom) or when her kids go back to school singing her song "My Kids Are Gone" song to the lyrics of "My boyfriends back". The list goes on and on. How does she come up with this stuff? She must have a million ideas in that head of hers. And her camping trips, she's brilliant I tell you! I know everyone that comes here has read her blog and if by a slim chance you haven't just click here . You better start from the beginning she's just too funny to miss even one post.

Another blogger who is a fascinating person and a brilliant writer is RBK's Realm. She is Originally from New Delhi, India. She's been in the US for twenty years and she calls it home now. She is a single mom and has a son who is in college.

When I first started reading her blog, I was and still am fascinated with her life. She talks about her arranged marriage, myths about India and so much more! I swear she is a walking encyclopedia. Please, please check her out and read from cover to cover. You won't be disappointed. Click here.

Thanks.

Friday Foto Finish Fiesta!!

2008-08-22T06:00:00.002-04:00

30 YEAR CLASS REUNION!

Last weekend August 16, 2008, we had our reunion. I have to tell you I was nervous. I have seen some of my classmates throughout the years and at our 20 year. But, this is 30 years, think about it...most of you out there are around that age or younger! That's a long time ago. Anyway, I was nervous...let me back up and tell you...I leave out a lot of details when I post so, getting here was almost next to impossible. (I'll just leave it at that)

We have a celebrity in our class of 1978, and if you are up on Broadway and directors/choreographers, you'll know exactly who I'm talking about! The Tony Award winning...Jerry Mitchell!! Yes, it's true, I grew up with him...I even went to a movie with him in Middle School! How cool is that!

The reunion was awesome, I had a blast. They were mean and didn't put name tags on us...wanted to see if we could recognize each other or something. Some of the guys...had no clue who they were! Would of walked right on by, had I seen them on the street.

Another classmate had a band back in High School and he was there...jamming to "Smoke On The Water" He played it so much back then, silly me thought he wrote the song! Whatever!

Girlfriend, Bekki, (her husband)Dan and me, dude behind me, not a clue who he is, think he crashed the reunion.

Mary, Jerry, me, Bekki and Gail

We had a lot more people in the other room...when people send me pictures I'll show you some more great shots!

Go to Candid Carrie and see some great fotos!

VACATION!

2008-08-19T21:00:00.003-04:00

We're going on vacation guys!!!

We'll take a lot of pictures, and think of all of you! Make sure you let the cats out!

MUAHHHHH!!!!!

The Truth and a lie--- The Truths

2008-08-14T10:48:00.002-04:00

I ran my first Marathon in 2004 in Detroit...as you can see by the picture the time--my actual time was 3:52:46! Not too bad considering I had many injuries while training...for my age bracket I had to run it by 4 hours!

This is me over there on the horse! In 1977 I was 17 years old and I qualified for the World Championships. I went and got third in the world!

Concerning sky-diving...no way in a million years would I jump out of a plane. On the other hand my parents sky-dived all the time while I was growing up, as did my two brothers.

So unfortunately nobody won my little fun game!

Two Truths and a Lie

2008-08-12T22:04:00.007-04:00

First, the picture over there is of my friend Gillian and myself toasting you good luck before we play the game--Two truths and a Lie

Here's the deal, I tell you two statements, that are true about me and one lie.

Easy...right, you think you know me? Well, we will find out.

Post your answers in the comments and I will announce the winner on Thursday at 5pm.

hint: you might find some of the answers in my previous posts.

1. In 1977 I went to Oklahoma City, Oklahoma for the AQHA World Championship's and placed Third in Jumping and fourth in Working Hunter.

2. The first time I ran a Marathon--I qualified for Boston!

3. I sky-dived when I was two months pregnant (unknowingly pregnant)

I want to pass this on: The winner hosts next Wednesday's game. :)

Good Luck!

8:17pm
UPDATE--OK since nobody's participating the winner does not have to host! OK, so start playing.

I'm thinking it's a lot more fun with a group of people sitting around!! :)

Happy Birthday!! Chloe and Rickie

2008-08-11T23:07:00.005-04:00

My two peeps...as you can see they're not twins, yet they share the same birthday! I didn't post yesterday and if you know me you would not be surprised... that I am a bit late! This is also 7 years ago.

Happy Birthday sweeties...

Someday when I have a lot more time(when school starts) I'll do a better job at bragging about my kids!

There I did it.

p.s. There birthday was Sunday, August 10th. And yes...I see the dirt on Chloe's nose!

I Won A Cool Award

2008-08-09T22:43:00.002-04:00

Well, this is the first time, that I've won something that I haven't really worked for! So basically, I am so honored (even though I certainly don't deserve the award) that's beside the point.

The very cool, sweet Amelia Bedelia from a very small town I might add, that also has three very funny sisters (maybe two sisters) there all funny just I can't remember if she has two or three!

The award is called--"Kick Ass Bloggers" you can see the thingy on the right hand side over there...isn't it cool?

I have to say it couldn't of come at a better time...you see I, if I was so inclined could of written a country song this week about my life. Thank you very much (Amy) Amelia Bedlia!

I will now pay it forward to 5 "Kick Ass Bloggers"

1. spokesNspin

2. The Life and Crimes of a Mom

3. So, what was I saying?

4. The Cold House Rules

5.RBK's Realm

Ok, here's the fine print:
Choose 5 other bloggers that you feel are “Kick Ass Bloggers”* Let them know that they have received an award* Link back to both the person who awarded you and also www.mammadawg.com* Visit the Kick Ass Blogger Club HQ , to get codes click here and it will take you to KABC HQ, sign Mr. Linky then pass it on!

Artist in the house

2008-08-08T05:00:00.000-04:00

This is a picture of the painting my daughter did in school. She is our budding artist. Please go to her blog and check out more of her pieces! Hannah's blog

Also go to candid carrie's site and check out all the Friday Fiesta Foto Finish

Puppy Love

2008-08-06T09:39:00.003-04:00

Have I told you lately that I love you...

Twistin the night away...

You wear it well..

Angel came down from heaven yesterday...

Ever seen a blind man cross the road Tryin' to make the other side...

Reason to believe...

Tonights the night...

I love Rod Stewart...have for a very long time, let's see...I think I started listening to him the summer of going into eighth grade.

I started liking him because of a boy, our neighbor. You see he thought he was Rod Stewart...yes he did and quite frankly he looked like him as well. My girlfriend and I started going over to his house and listening to music with them, I say them because his friend was there with him. They were a lot older than we were. You know how girls mature way before boys do, well we looked older and more mature I'm sure.

I think they were, now don't gasp or anything, but I'm thinkin they were seniors or juniors in high school! Yes, older men. (don't worry they were gentlemen) So, we would sneak over there and listen to Rod Stewart for hours, while they sang a long, mainly my guy did.

My parents eventually found out that I was going over there and forbid me to see him again. He did give me Rod Stewart albums to listen to so of course I had to give them back. We lived in the country so... geez...I put them in the middle of the road for him to get, as he drove by.

I made myself not like him because I was tired of all the sneaking around. He was such a nice kid and I will always remember him through listening to Rod Stewart. Which by the way I'm going to tonight with my husband! And even though I'll think of him, I've moved on. But that first crush or puppy love will always stay with you.

So, in honor of the concert tonight and my first crush I'll leave you with this...

Lola

2008-08-03T23:12:00.002-04:00

We lost our beloved pet, Lola this evening. She was hit by a car...

We love you Lola - Rest in Peace

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You, got mail!

2008-08-01T16:16:00.005-04:00

How do you make a six year olds day? You send them something in the mail! Everyday when we check the mail someone will say..."Did I get anything, Mom?"

And my answer to them is..."No, you have to write or send something to get something?"

Well, today was different...I went to the bottom of the stairs...that's where our mailbox is, and whoa and behold...Rickie received mail...

Me-- "Rickie, come here...you got something in the mail!"

He comes running up the stairs from the basement with a big fat grin on his face.

Rickie-- "I did?"

Me--"Yes, come here and open it!"

Rickie tore into the envelope.

Rickie--"Wow, look mom...money!"

Me--"Its so cool, it's a card let's read it!"

Hello Rickie

This is the second thing I am sending you because the first thing I sent to you came back to me all goofed so , I get to do "do-over" on that one!

I saw this card at Target and I had to buy it because it reminded me of the pillow case you were resting on in a picture I saw of you. You look very handsome laying on a pile of money :)

It finally got to be summer in Wisconsin and it is way too hot for me. We have had very exciting rain storms with thunder and lightening and hail. The hail was very exciting and some of my kids went outside to walk in the hail. Not me! No thank you.

Then when the sun came out we had a true double rainbow. It was so cool to see.

Bye, from Wisconsin, Carrie

Carrie--You made a six year olds day! Thank you so much. Not only are you one of the funniest ladies in blog-land, but you have one of the biggest hearts!

p.s. she also sent him a pad of paper and on the front it read:

Rickie--Use this note paper to make lists of stuff you want your mom to do for you!! Ha Ha

Friday Foto Finish Fiesta

2008-08-01T05:00:00.001-04:00

This is an updated picture of our two youngest. On the left is Nile (Bengal) and on the right is Scout's baby--Oliver or we call him baby Scout most of the time. Oh yeah, Baby Scout is 9 weeks old already.

Chelsea

2008-07-31T13:26:00.004-04:00

I am very homesick...not for home, but for my second oldest daughter. Yes, I miss her terribly.

It's funny when there home they're driving you crazy. She's been gone for 4 days and I have no contact with her at all!! She's at camp for 2 weeks! I don't know if I'm going to make it.

I went through this 2 years ago when my oldest went to college...cried like a baby every time I heard a song on the radio that reminded me of her.

I did get over it...eventually.

Chelsea is quite the character...she has a very strong personality always has. She had an attitude they moment she was born--no kidding at the age of 2 if I didn't put her socks on correctly or should I say perfectly she ripped those suckers off and re did it!

She's just so much fun.

If I wasn't her Mother I'd be her friend.

This is her last year at home, she's a senior this year.

Get me the Kleenex, I'll need it because it's the last for a lot of things...

Blast from the past 5-12-2003

2008-07-26T18:14:00.003-04:00

I love looking at pictures and I was trying to find a picture with the whole family in it. So, here it is all the way back to 2003.

Where are all the family pictures? The older they get the harder it is to put them in one spot for a picture!

This was a fun day though. I am truly in my element out in the woods...I am a country girl, raised horses, mucked out the barn, all that fun stuff.

I will find a recent one though....soon.

New Blog

2008-07-25T20:06:00.006-04:00

I just recently started a new blog! I thought I would dedicate an entire blog to Cystic fibrosis and how it affects Rickie and our family.

If you are so inclined please check it out!

Thanks please go to Rickies Blog

Friday Foto Finish Fiesta

2008-07-25T05:00:00.001-04:00

As you can tell by the date of this foto it's 1997, and we were vacationing up-north. I had five kids at the time and Ali(8) is in her Hawaiian print bathing suit, Chelsea (6) has her back to us and Gavin(2) who is now 14 is the little guy.

I especially love this foto because it represents summer to me, lazy days at the lake.

I'll try to update the picture with all six kids next time...

Go to candidcarrie and participate in Friday Foto Finish Fiesta

Wednesday (in case you forgot) or commonly called hump-day

2008-07-23T15:04:00.003-04:00

Basically, I've been in a perpetually slump...for the passed 48 years, yes I'm 48 (almost 49) *eek*

My daughter is sitting on the floor as I type this laughing at me! (she thinks I'm a nerd) No, she doesn't she says. but, I think secretly she does.

My son is standing behind me saying I'm paranoid. Wow, teenagers they're so much fun. Is it time to go back to school yet? I'm telling you right now if it was, I'd be doing the happy dance!

Chelsea's going to camp on Sunday *yeah* OK, shes my favorite girl ( she is sitting right next to me) Candidcarrie thinks Chelsea's got pretty awesome hair, which she got from me. Thank you.

Isn't it funny how when your kids have an attribute like great hair, or intelligence, or they're really good at something they have to of gotten it from someone...sure, we all do it. The truth is they are who they are just because. That's what I think anyway, of course looks....they really do get from me! ha...just kidding.

Yet, when they do something wrong or get into trouble it's the other persons kid...."Your daughter or son did blah...blah...blah today!!!"

Yeah, we're pretty weird over here...and I'm getting bored with myself so I have to go for now. I will be posting pictures of our kitten who is 8 weeks now! Can you believe it?

So, until next time people...

Raindrops keep falling on my head...

2008-07-18T23:35:00.002-04:00

I have to say, that it's been one of the rainiest summers that I can remember. So far we've had 21.11in of rain and last year we only had 11.75. Taken from walker,weather, MI

Listen, I'm not complaining. I love what the rain does to our grass, plants and flowers....green, green, green.

Recently, I also learned that our cost of water went up 100% since last year.

Don't worry we contribute to our public works, with 8 in our family we do our share of laundry and not to mention showers!

When the kids were little I could fit them all in the bathtub at once and save a bunch on water usage... I think the most I fit in the tub at once was three and there were legs and arms everywhere. I washed them in an assembly line, and when they got out, the same thing ~ those were the days.

I was telling my friend the other day, that we thought it was hard when they were little. In actuality it was the easy times...yes, it's difficult at times not getting sleep, doing everything for them, but at least you know where there at, you can put them to bed when you want, feed them healthy food etc.

When there teenagers--watch out! That's when the real work starts.

You worry about them when there gone (especially if they drive) You don't have any say during the summer on bedtimes. You certainly cannot make them dress the way you want them to dress. It's just a whole new ballgame.

Let me ask you this how did a post about water, morph into a post about teenagers--see what they do to me! (good grief) Well it's been a while this whole blogging thing....I'll work on sticking to one subject next time!

It's good to be back! :)

Field Trip today!

2008-07-10T09:07:00.002-04:00

I am so excited to go with Carrie to Canada today! Please go to campcandidcarrie or click here and join a million of us on her exciting field trips! See you there.

Detroit Tigers Vs. Cleveland Indians

2008-07-09T10:21:00.005-04:00

Tonight the boys are going to the baseball game! How much more summer can you get...

It reminds me of my youth, when my brothers were in little league and they had the All Star games. It was not only special because they made the team, but that they played under the lights! Let me tell you that was huge!

You would of thought they were superstars. At least that's what I thought of them. My older brother Dave was the best catcher ever. Seriously, he was. I loved watching him play--throwing off his mask, so that he could catch a foul ball! Wow, I was impressed!

Rick my younger brother played second base he was awesome too.

One thing you don't know about me is that, I thought my brothers were the coolest, nicest guys in the whole entire universe.

I could say bad things about them (when I was angry with them) but you'd better never say anything bad about them!

The fact that my husband is taking our two sons to the baseball game tonight, reminded me of them both, and how much I miss them.

Anyway, back to the game... My husband is from Ohio, so naturally he's rooting for the Indians and we do live in MI, so our boy's will be rooting for the Tigers! It should be a fun night out for the guys!

Go Tigers! and to be fair Go Indians!

Update

2008-07-07T07:45:00.003-04:00

Hello all! This is not what I wanted to start blogging again about, yet it is my life and seems I have to take the good with the bad. Rickie was released from the hospital last week, although he is still sick.

A nasty virus is going around and it sure knocked him on his rear. Good news it didn't turn in to a CF exacerbation. That was the doc's concern.

A lot more updates to come!

Thanks everyone for your comments and well wishes, I really appreciate all of them:)

Everyone's well!!!!

2008-06-14T13:46:00.002-04:00

Hope everyone is well! Although, things are back to somewhat of normal, I'm still taking time off! See all of you in the fall. :)

I'm still checking up on all of your blogs!

Be Back Later.......Much later

2008-06-05T14:51:00.001-04:00

Due to reasons beyond my control, I will not be blogging for a while, as you can see I have more precious things to take care of.....

H O M E!!!!

2008-06-04T18:19:00.003-04:00

HOME from the doctor's today!!! Key word being home...this is huge for him. His PFT's were not that great, but the doctor said that will come. He has to gain weight, so carnation instant breakfast in his whole milk...milk shakes, McDonald's, you name it he can have it!!!

You're probably thinking he doesn't look that skinny...well people with CF they encourage to gain weight or keep it on because the higher the bmi the better the lung function.

So, Rickie eat, eat, eat and don't forget your enzymes!

Thanks for all your positive thoughts and prayers...you guys make me tear up thinking you really do care.

Thanks, Carrie and Heidi you guys are my girls! :)

Clinic Appointment Today (Wednesday)

2008-06-03T20:08:00.006-04:00

This is my friend our youngest child Rickie ...the picture on the left he has his vest on, the vest is connected to a machine that forces air into the vest and it shakes his lungs and loosens the mucus in the airways, after which he is forced to cough out the mucus....along with the vest Rickie does his nebs.

Three different medicines by way of a nebulizer--at the same time his vest is on. It takes a little longer than 30 min. He does it twice a day--everyday--forever.

When Rickie is sick he has to do treatments 3 to 4 times a day.

Every 3 months he goes to clinic, they test his pulmonary function, weight, chest x-rays, and physical exam. If his pulmonary function test is down 10%, or his weight is down, it is a red flag to the doctors and they put him in the hospital and give him a tune-up. A tune up is normally IV meds, respiratory therapy and physical therapy. This normally lasts 2-3 weeks...sometimes they let him go home with IV meds.

Rickie is worried. Every time so far, he's had a clinic appointment he hasn't come home.

Please, if you have a chance, send Rickie positive thoughts, pray that he can come home after his appointment!

This is a request from him...

This is my song to you Rickie.

Love you,

Mommy

The Secret Is In The Sauce

2008-06-03T13:31:00.004-04:00

OK, so I go and check out all my favorite blogs and what do I find in common? Everyone is jumping aboard this great idea Heather and Mrs. Romeros came up with, The Secret Is In The Sauce.

It's a contest, a contest that brings more people to your blog! You need to send them three of your best posts and you will become a featured blogger on their site. They will direct all their readers to your blog! (I think I already mentioned that! oh well)

Link over there and follow the directions in their post! Yes, it's that easy do it! If I can do it anybody can!

Adventures of a traveling Cat

2008-06-02T16:00:00.004-04:00

Here is our newest addition!!! He's 5 days old and of course his eyes are still closed.

I am so glad that I am not a cat! I would hate not seeing anything wouldn't you? I don't care if I am only 5 days old! Gheez..

Scout is so funny. I think since she has only one, she thinks she can just travel anywhere with her baby. Every time you open the door she's standing there with kid in mouth, ready to flee.

Chelsea said she was woke up last night numerous times...she heard little mews by her ear. She's like OMG the kitten is right next to her head and miss Scout is sleeping by her feet!!! Taking a break.

I laughed so hard, it's like Scouts thinking-- hmmmmm I think I'll take a break and let my mom watch the kid! Lalala life is good.

So apparently this went on all through the night.

I told Chelsea, I would definitely put an end to this right away. Move her to the basement, in a room and shut the door. Nighty night kitties.

Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you...we have another newbie at home too.

A Bengal kitten almost 10 weeks old he's beautiful....Hannah's newest pet...I'll show you him later.

MOST REMARKABLE WOMAN!!!

2008-05-31T22:54:00.003-04:00

I want to implore all of my friends here to check out a remarkable woman. I recently found Jodie's blog through Google alerts. Some of you might know that our youngest has Cystic Fibrosis, so I have anything to do with CF coming into my inbox daily.

One of them, was an article about Jodie. She is a 23 year old English woman who happens to have CF.

I've been following along with her blog daily...I won't give it away but she is an inspiration to so many people. Especially people living with CF.

Her adventure is truly amazing...please, please please (three for emphasis!) check out her blog and see what she has just accomplished!!!!

Go to Jodie's blog HERE!

Grateful for all of you!

2008-05-31T20:04:00.006-04:00

I simply wanted to tell all of you out there in cyber-land, who have been commenting on my blog, I'm becoming attached to all of you! Yes, I really have. It makes me really happy when y'all take the time to come here, and then comment, I just wanted to thank you.

Truth be told, when the first comment came in (that wasn't from a family member) I was shocked maybe even blown away!! I just didn't think other people would read my words! I even remember who it was it was, Blessings from above

Thank you Jennifer, for starting this whole commenting thing! :)

Again thank you,

(((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Carey

Friday's Foto Finish Fiesta

2008-05-30T10:35:00.005-04:00

It's Friday and it's time for Candid Carrie's "Friday's foto Finish Fiesta"

I love this picture of my oldest daughter Ali, she was already for the homecoming dance, and she put on her sunglasses (so that she could see) and I think she looked pretty cool! She wore them all night!

Chelsea and Me

2008-05-29T11:12:00.002-04:00

Carrie this one's for you!!! modern day "Circus of the Stars"

Kitten update

2008-05-29T08:37:00.004-04:00

One is the loneliest number that you'll ever know....so the song goes, I was a little disappointed that she only had 1 single kitten, but I got ta thinkin. Heck shes not a human, she's a cat, a cat Carey--get over it!

I tend to liken animals to humans, can't help it, I just do that. Like:

"Ahhhhh it doesn't have a brother or sister to cuddle with, poor thing."

So what, she gets to have her mom all to herself, but of course, when the mom is gone she's all alone. So in jumps moi to intervene and pet it while the mom's eating so she won't be alone. This is going to drive me nuts, I will not do that.

Anyway, she's a cat and she'll be fine...

Stay tuned for pictures!

Scout is a Mother!!

2008-05-28T05:05:00.006-04:00

Update--Scout has one kitten!!! It's a beautiful calico like herself. (I say it because we don't know what it is yet. She already has a home with Chelsea's friend Rachel...what a great experience we had with her last night!

This is Chelsea's baby in her birthing box at around midnight last night.
Chelsea stayed up with her all night helping her labor. She kept getting up and down all night. Chelsea's like

"Hey Scout, just get through this one labor and we'll have you spayed, I promise!"

That was around 2:30am, still no kitties.

I checked on the mother to be around 4am and she was pushing hard in her box. Still nothing.

I get a text message from Chelsea around 4:30am , "come"

So, being the obedient mother I am, I go running up the stairs and Scout is under Chelsea's bed licking her first born kitten. "Ahhhhhhh" it was so cute.

It is now 5:15am. I will be giving updates throughout the day today

What was it like when you were a kid????

2008-05-27T20:21:00.006-04:00

Me, in the chair with my cousin, watching my aunt play airplane.

I was having a conversation with my younger kids the other day, and they asked me about what life was like when I was younger! Ya know, one of those conversations--the kind that make you feel really old.

I started off by telling them all of the things we didn't have.

1) remote control for televisions, of course we only had 3 channels!

2) colored tv. (is that politically correct?)

3) cell phones-Our phones were connected to the wall, if you wanted privacy you had to stretch the cord to someplace private like a closet or something! Plus we had a party line I think we shared a line with 6 other families...that was fun listening on!

4) home computers- we just got an electric typewriter....remember typos!

5) touch tone phones (for you really young ones, we had rotary dial, ask your Mom or Dad what rotary dial is)

6) fax machines, pagers (do we still use these?)

7) C.D. players and iPods

8) flat screen televisions

9) digital cameras-We did have a Polaroid though it was awesome!

10) braces--haha just kidding, we actually didn't want them!

And of course the question, what did you do for fun Mom? Or the question--Did you have cars? Are you kidding me...how old do they think I am?

What did we do for fun?

How do they think we had fun? We didn't have anything! We entertained ourselves, we played outside until it got dark, we made stuff out of sticks, and mud, like forts.

We weren't Playing game cube or Xbox360 ,or play station,web surfing, texting our friends, or talking to them on the computer, we were at their houses hanging out inventing things to do! We used our imaginations!

We didn't have that much but we certainly had fun!

My two younger kids just looked at me with a glazed over look in their eyes,

"Wow, We feel sorry for you, you didn't have anything!"

Oh well, someday they'll get it!

To Our Fallen Heroes

2008-05-26T10:59:00.002-04:00

(((((((((((((D I N N E R))))))))))))

2008-05-24T18:07:00.004-04:00

I was talking to a friend today and we were laughing about dinner...yes, it was quite funny. Because we were discussing the different ways families conduct their dinner.

Take our family for instance: My husband is a manners Nazi... the harder the kids try to get away with bad manners the worse it gets...I, on the other hand love chaotic dinners! yeah the more the merrier pull up a chair and enjoy.

I don't mind elbows on the table, finger usage, singing if it's not too loud, and everyone talking at once. Now chewing with your mouth open, thats going a bit too far.

Now the husband-he's the proper one, do not put your elbows on the table....god forbid if you pushed some peas onto your spoon with your finger! And as soon as your elbow touches the table ...WHAM, you're nailed.

His philosophy, is to always be teaching your children (I agree to a certain extent) my argument to him is that the kids know how to act in public, they will not embarrass us! Can't we just have a relaxing dinner?

How can two totally different people eat peacefully at the table with two conflicting beliefs? I don't know, I have to button my mouth and wait until he goes out of town...

What are we having for dinner?

2008-05-23T14:47:00.003-04:00

This is the question I hear every single day...and to tell you the truth, I hate it. Seriously, thats one thing about being a mom I could live without,

"What's for dinner?"

Here are some of my answers:

1) I don't have any idea...I don't really know.

2) Are you really hungry?

3) Have a bowl of cereal.

4) Go to Mama's losin' it blog.

5) How about popcorn?

I was talking to my mom the other day--about this very subject, and it's not that we dislike making dinner, it's coming up with different ideas.

Plus, you have to figure out the ingredients, go to the store purchase it, bring it home and make it...blah....then you do all that, and it takes--a minute or two to eat.

Everyone jumps up from the table:

"Thanks Mom!"

"Yeah, great dinner!"

And you're left sitting at the table and everyone's gone.

So, what are we having for dinner?